Para muitas famílias, em especial para mães, esta é uma semana cheia de sentimentos opostos. Alívio, pois com a volta às aulas se aproximando, a vida retoma o ritmo normal e a concentração dos pais no trabalho deixa de ser um enorme malabarismo.

Só que não dá para ser totalmente feliz: logo vem a lembrança de que agora são somente dois bimestres para recuperar aquelas notas baixas que se acumularam. E o agravante – a impressão de que seu filho, o maior interessado no assunto, não está nem aí.f2f2cd_eb36b2be6e1d44fc9adc86f93af69819-mv2

Está se identificando com a situação? Pois bem, você não está sozinha! E sua ajuda será fundamental agora!

Infelizmente a primeira notícia que temos em relação a isso não é nada boa. Não existe milagre que resolva a sequência de notas baixas. Ainda que o problema esteja em uma só matéria, o foco principal é assumir que o problema pode não ser o conteúdo. Na prática, significa eliminar da sua vida afirmações do tipo “ah, ele odeia essa matéria” ou “essa professora não vai com a cara dele, por isso ele vai mal nessa matéria”.

Caso seu filho esteja com notas baixas em diversas matérias, outra notícia pouco animadora: reforço do conteúdo não vai resolver. Sem uma ação diferente, que foque em resolver a dificuldade que ele tem em estudar de forma eficaz, a sequência de mau desempenho vai continuar. E a tendência é que as notas permaneçam baixas, pois assim como você, seu filho já não tem tanta certeza de que consegue reverter esse quadro.

Mas calma: não é falta de vontade, não é descaso com todo o trabalho que vocês pais têm para manter a casa, alimentos, uniforme, transporte, enfim, tudo o que está envolvido na educação dos filhos. O problema é que notas baixas geram um círculo vicioso em que a auto estima fica em níveis baixos, tanto pelo mau resultado na escola quanto pela imagem que os pais passam a ter de seus filhos. Com a auto estima baixa, o próprio cérebro se recusa a fazer o esforço necessário para aprender, o que gera mais notas baixas.

Fingir que não se importa acaba sendo a única saída que o aluno vê ao seu alcance, já que nem se acha capaz e nem sabe como sair deste círculo no qual está envolvido.

As dicas de como você, pai ou responsável pode ajudar são:

  • Mudar sua postura em relação à capacidade que seu filho tem de assumir responsabilidade pelos próprios estudos. É um enorme desafio, porém, necessário. Não sem motivo, os pais estão em pânico com a relação que seus filhos têm com os estudos. A forma como reagem, porém, não ajuda em nada. Pare um pouquinho e pense em como você se expressa quando fala com seu filho sobre a escola, notas, provas. Também em consequência de resultados negativos, os pais passam a tratar os filhos como pessoas incapazes de assumir a responsabilidade que é deles. Em muitos casos, os pais chegam a implorar e até a fazer acordos envolvendo trocas que não fazem sentido, pois reforçam nos filhos a ideia de que ir bem nos estudos é um favor que estão fazendo aos pais. Sim, seu filho precisa de elogios quando se esforça. Contudo, precisa também ter consciência de que baixo desempenho escolar trará consequências negativas para ele e não para você, responsável. Então nada de chorar ou implorar para que seu filho leia aquele livro sobre o qual terá prova. Sente-se com ele e seja firme, porém calma e coloque a realidade: se não ler, não vai ter como tirar nota. Se não tirar nota, será reprovado. Os amigos irão para a série seguinte e ele vai arcar com a consequência das decisões que tomou. Você não tem como obrigá-lo a ler, mas pode deixar a casa sem TV e sem internet, de forma que ler passe a ser uma das poucas opções do que fazer.
  • A família toda precisa mudar de hábitos para que a criança ou adolescente consiga sair do círculo vicioso de maus resultados na escola. Pensei nisso como se fosse uma reeducação alimentar. Imagine que seu filho esteja com problemas de saúde por  conta de má alimentação. Pode estar obeso ou com qualquer outra necessidade do organismo a ser suprida. Não vai adiantar você fazer legumes e grelhado para ele se na mesma mesa servir fritura e açúcar para vocês, pais. Hábitos saudáveis de estudo vão também requerer exemplo e um ambiente com menor número de tentações possível, pelo menos até que o novo hábito esteja assimilado. Uma sugestão prática: criar a hora da leitura. Todas as terças e quintas, das 19:00 até 20:00 horas, todos os membros da família estarão com suas telinhas desligadas, lendo. Que tal? Na pior das hipóteses, vocês, pais, vão conseguir entender o quanto isso é desafiador nos dias atuais.
  • Atenção, porém, que isso pode não ser suficiente. Seu filho pode realmente não saber o que fazer para conseguir focar na hora do estudo. Na maioria dos casos, a criança ou adolescente realmente não sabe como driblar as distrações e se concentrar para ler ou estudar a matéria da prova. Ele precisa de ajuda.
  • Se precisar de ajuda, para que seu filho desenvolva hábitos saudáveis de estudo, mande um email para socorro@meufilhonaoestuda.com.br, com o assunto SOS.

Bom segundo semestre letivo! Sobreviveremos!

Socorro, meu filho só tem dois bimestres para recuperar as notas baixas!

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  • 15/05/2017 em 7:35 pm
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  • 16/05/2017 em 12:40 am
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    Bill,I think you need to distinguish between the broad conservative movement in the SBC, which majors on the belief in inerrancy and the fundamental doctrines of the faith, and a narrow version of the CR which demands conformity on all issues of Baptist tradition.Most of us just want people to believe the Bible and practice Baptism by immersion, etc. We are willing to accept differences on issues that are fundamental neither to the faith nor to our fellowship as Baptists.I do not think it is fair to paint the entire CR movement with one brush, or to assume that certain viewpoints represent the whole movement.

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  • 16/05/2017 em 3:06 am
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    Fascinating to see these comments of support, where I’d have thought that support would be unnecessary, the question being moot! You’re right, there is a mistaken perception that “Enlightenment” is a rising above human-ness. No, real enlightenment comes when we cease to resist our human-ness, when we sink deep into all that makes us truly human – sex being one of the more pleasant aspects of that condition! Keep preaching it, Lori – you’ve a wonder-filled voice!

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  • 16/05/2017 em 8:37 am
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    வினவு,இந்த மட்டரகமான கருத்தற்ற பின்னூட்டத்தை எப்படி அனுமதிக்கிறீர்கள்.வாதத்திற்கு பதில் சொல்ல வக்கற்றவர்கள் இது போன்ற வசவுகள் மூலம் எதிராளிகள் வாதத்தை முடக்க முயற்சிப்பது அனுமதிக்கத்தக்கதல்ல எனபது நான் சொல்லி உங்களுக்கு தெரிய வேண்டியதில்லை.நீங்களே இப்படி உறுதி அளித்துள்ளீர்கள்.\\\\ கருத்து மாறுபட்டை ஆணித்தரமாகவோ, ஏன் கோபமாகக் கூட சொல்லலாம். ஆனால் எல்லா விவாதத்திலும் கருத்தற்ற தனிநபர் தாக்குதல், வசைச்சொற்கள், அநாகரீக மொழிகளை தவிர்க்க வேண்டும். அத்தகைய பின்னூட்டங்கள் பகுதி அளவிலோ அல்லது முழுமையாகவோ நீக்கப்படும்//

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  • 16/05/2017 em 11:59 am
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    Sou como tu, uma apaixonada pelo preto *-* Praticamente o meu armário tem roupa escura. Gostei bastante do teu outfit, especialmente os botins! E acho que pelo sítio onde moras tens a melhor desculpa para usares preto Beijinho*

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  • 16/05/2017 em 1:54 pm
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    Hi Anu Lovely recipe. will give it a try for sure.Is parmesan cheese vegetarian? I think rennet is used to make it. Please clarify on this.ThanksPriyankaAlso, ur sister is very beautiful, just like U!

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  • 17/05/2017 em 4:31 pm
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    marion n scha cantik n simple ja walaupun dah jadi artis lama…juliana lak walaupun muka pan asian simple je gayanya…neelopak lak dah la muka x macam pan asian..ada hati nak bergaya melebih2..hello ramai g artis lam gambar kat atas ni super duper gorgeous even simple…simple is better than over…Well-loved.

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  • 17/05/2017 em 5:35 pm
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    Toujours très bon :)Merci pour le coup des poils du nez, je le referai plus.Autre info pour les bactérophobes : dans une émission que Continent Sciences, j’avais entendu que notre intestin contient en gros 1 kg de bactérie.

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  • 17/05/2017 em 6:42 pm
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    HiHow much should a modified cushion cut, colour H, clarity SI1 and size 2,02 carat diamond cost and which is the “better” cut; the chunky antique or the modified broken glass cut. I think we might prefer the antique cut. Also if the diamond is slightly rectangular; ratio 1.15 to 1 does this affect the value?Hope you can help me

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  • 18/05/2017 em 12:53 am
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    Congratulations on Post 500!As for Pelicans, they’re a great feature of life here on the Australian coast. It’s a nuisance when they roost on a post above ones car, though! It takes a day to wash off the ‘poo’!

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  • 18/05/2017 em 11:10 am
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    This was really good! Used flour instead of cornstarch, added some garlic powder and orange/ginger glaze to the sauce and it turned out great! Perfect consistency, great taste, and simple!

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  • 18/05/2017 em 3:36 pm
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    Ahoj Kamilko, u nás na Proseku dnes taky padaly sněhové vločky, tak si říkáme, zda jste si neodskočili do Antarktidy? Těšíme se až nás naučíš hru ulu-maika a budeš nám vyprávět další své zážitky z cesty kolem světa. Všechny moc zdravíme a paním učitelkám velký dík!

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  • 18/05/2017 em 10:05 pm
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    Recently my link to a US Government clip was routed to your notice that I was in violation of terms of use. Since this is a NASA clip in the public domain, I can't understand your management refusal of my use in other media. I believe your action to be in error.Please respond.

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  • 19/05/2017 em 6:43 am
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    I say save the $$ and do something you both have fun with!I am going through a similar thing with ballet classes. My daughter REALLY wanted to go but now that classes started (at 9:30 on a Saturday!) she's not really that into it and I am not going to insist just because it's cute… So, I think it's out with the ballet and in with long lazy breakfast and a bike ride or something. Cheaper and more fun!

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  • 19/05/2017 em 8:35 am
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    that about yourself. Secondly, being at a web-centric event does not equal power in media. The web, though a form of media, is just one part of media. You’re not in films, you’re not in books, you’ve barely been discussed in publications, and, oh, you’re fucking ugly.

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  • 19/05/2017 em 11:10 am
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    Haha oh goll. I love the captions you put on the pictures involving your neighbor. Sometimes I wonder if my neighbors think we are nuts too.. but I feel like since I have this belly to work with they just assume we are taking pictures of my progress. I did insanity for like 3 weeks last summer and I loved it but what you did sounds painful! You over did it girl! Slow and steady is the best way to get back into working out (;

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  • 20/05/2017 em 5:11 pm
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    HÅNDVASK er nøgleordet, ligegyldig hvad du fejler. Det er så vigtigt Det er via hænderne vi smitter de små. Amning er det der beskytter den lille mand. Modermælken er fuld af antistoffer som beskytter ham. Så hvis du ammer og vasker dine hænder hyppigt, så kan du muligvis komme udenom

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  • 20/05/2017 em 6:32 pm
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    about not trying to parent our parents. It's so easy to fall into this trap – to think that we know so much more than they do and can make better decisions. Even though my parents are not as sharp as they used to be, they do still have wisdom and experience that I have not yet amassed. Thank you for bringing this up. I will try to remember it when I start trying to take over, be officious and usurp all the control – as I have certainly done before.Paula

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  • 20/05/2017 em 10:52 pm
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    To nie problem z testingiem.Zawsze tak jest, że po wydaniu wersji stabilnej deweloperzy zaprzestajÄ… na pewien czas wydawania wersji testowej, aby skupić siÄ™ bardziej na dopracowanie wersji stabilnej. Za klilka miesiÄ™cy powrócÄ… do wydawania testowej.

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  • 21/05/2017 em 12:40 am
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    Den Kommentar hatte ich zu dem Buch “Alle meine Wünsche” geschrieben.Zur Lyrik-Lesung kann ich nur sagen: Ein schöner Abend. Eine gute Mischung von Gedichten der drei wunderbaren Lyriker und eine gut aufgelegte Heike Baller, die mit Bravour den ersten Lese-Abend in unserer Buchhandlung gemeistert hat. Wir werden noch weitere Abende miteinander veranstalten.

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  • 21/05/2017 em 7:07 am
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    Great post. One thing we do is use a Agile methodology (SCRUM to be exact) which preaches constant revaluation of features (todos) based on impact and cost. I have been trying to apply it to my personal life and it has been working pretty well so far.This of corse dovetails nicely with your delegation post. The more you delegate the less impostant stuff you have to pass on!

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  • 21/05/2017 em 9:31 am
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    about marriage and the afterlife. Whether you and your spouse are together in this life and next? Or whether you’re with your real soul mate in the next life? Where does it say this?And what about people with more than one wife? And those who have never married? Or are divorced?Thanks.

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  • 21/05/2017 em 12:51 pm
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    Hallo Mädels!Schöne Grüße aus Malle,bin mit meinem Herrchen;-) hier nichts gegen Hawaii.Wäre lieber bei meinem Frauchen,und würde die Surfer betrachten……Thats life euer Justin

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  • 21/05/2017 em 8:58 pm
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  • 22/05/2017 em 12:52 am
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    I love Moxiie. Wouldn’t have heard about her if not for you almost a year ago, and her last EP was one of my favs last year. Not sure I’m enjoying this though.

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  • 22/05/2017 em 3:53 am
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    This track has grown on me. I do not get any “ella” hook on this song, but Timbaland’s signature “cricket!” chirp is all over the chuors, adding a little fun to the beat. Both do a great job on this number.

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  • 22/05/2017 em 5:55 am
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    He is so handsome. And he'll always be your baby. I am 20 years old and my father always tells me how I am his baby no matter what; he still tries to hold my hand while crossing the street!

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  • 26/05/2017 em 1:42 am
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    Once again, this blog is just crap. You’re “thoughts” are just not worth commenting on, Limbaugh of the “left.” Or just Limbaugh? You invariably undermine what you profess to support, so I think its fair to wonder of you’re merely an angry moron or an agent provocateur.Readers beware.

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  • 26/05/2017 em 3:12 am
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    A decade or two of 10%+ inflation and all these debt problems are solved. And, as J.E. pointed out, all the productive assets and skills will still exist, just in different hands.

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  • 26/05/2017 em 4:17 am
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    Merci à tous pour la journée de l’école de rugby du 16 juin.Les moins de 15 vont trop vite à mon gout…Je recherche des photos de l’évènement (je ferai le trie), merci de me les envoyer sur mon adresse mail.Cordialement

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  • 26/05/2017 em 1:49 pm
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    Partir d’un point quelconque, Sandy doit etre interprete sous la formule « tout un chacun sait quelque chose ». Facile d’en deduire ensuite qu’il pourrait y avoir des back-(S)lashes (Vous fouettez dans l’air, la!). Et non, ne jouez pas de vos lashes telle une biche… Je ne suis qu’une ami(b)e (mais amibe, je suis! C’est un debut…)

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  • 26/05/2017 em 6:19 pm
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    Régis Debray, certes plus philosophe qu’économiste, mais l’interdisciplinarité a du bon, a publié en 2004 un essai allant dans votre sens, et que je vous recommande vivement : Le Plan Vermeil. Pour ma part, retraité repu et repentant, je viens de relire l’avant-dernier chapitre du Défi, le premier livre de Gabriel Matzneff, qui offre par avance une alternative séduisante au plan de Debray, rédigé 40 ans plus tard.

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  • 27/05/2017 em 10:35 am
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    Thanks! :)Sally – haha! 🙂 Mine is always at least ponytail length since I can't stand wearing it down, but once it gets near my shoulders I've always chopped it off. I made my mom promise to NOT let me cut it off this time if I tell her I want to visit the salon 🙂

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  • 27/05/2017 em 3:38 pm
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    L-theanine is all natural and has no known side effects. However, I don’t know how it will react with the other medicine. For that you should consult your doctor. But because L-theanine is so natural, I don’t think you would have any problems if you wanted to try one and see how you feel. Hope this helps.

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  • 27/05/2017 em 9:21 pm
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    Tanner is adorable. Love your choice to paper piece him. My favorite set would be the You Whooooooo Owl. So cute and I can always use more of those kind of sentiments! Thanks for the inspiration!

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  • 28/05/2017 em 3:49 am
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    ब्लोगर्स से सम्बंधित अच्छी जानकारी मिली ….मेहनत से लिखे लेख के लिए आभार

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  • 28/05/2017 em 4:19 am
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    Nov05 I remember getting lost in Hankyu Jaya as a kid. I was terrified. Lol.And I remember watching Sri Penaga being built from the ground up.Plus watching all the houses along Jln Maarof being turned into shophouses one by one.Some of my memories of ze old Bangsar.

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  • 29/05/2017 em 12:23 am
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    Abdullah Avcı iki sezon önce Bursaspor'un 6-0 kazandığı maçtan sonra "niye bu kadar üzerimize geldiler anlamıyorum" demişti. Bence bu laf çok şey anlatıyor.

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  • 29/05/2017 em 3:55 am
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    Nice read, I just passed this onto a friend who was doing some research on that. And he just bought me lunch since I found it for him smile Thus let me rephrase that: Thanks for lunch! “To be 70 years young is sometimes far more cheerful and hopeful than to be 40 years old.” by Oliver Wendell Holmes.

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  • 29/05/2017 em 9:39 pm
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    You are sure right about the Senior Bowl, That is when Weeden’s stock crashed tremendously as far as being a top round draft pick goes. He could have been their in the fifth round after that Senior Bowl disaster….

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